hurdled by the Blue Bird's clientele
We live in a heteronormative society. Kids are brought up to see straight as the "default" sexuality, thus why we say things like "turn gay", not "she turned straight after dating that girl." straight girls responding to your sexuality by stating "men can do a better job" is also probably a (unconscious or otherwise) way for them to defend their own sexuality. It can be intimidating to consider that the way you've viewed yourself and the world for your whole life could be completely different. So, I started calling him Lewis. I actually worked it in with his old dildos name started calling him Buddy Lewis. Slowly I started dropping the Buddy and just called him Lewis. You tell us men that we need to focus on whats best for our girl, thats great, but what about whats best for us? What about what we want too? Its like youre telling us to just forget and not worry about our penises at all. That not what we want. We are not selfish for that. ...